Some Rules You Need To Know When Finding the Right Mate!

There is a proverb which goes like’ a bad breakfast screws the day and a bad life partner screws the whole life’. It is without a doubt very true. You need to choose your life partner very cautiously because it is your mate that will be the one with whom you will share your secrets, your joy, your sorrow and everything in your life.  Being in a relationship is not a big deal but maintaining it is the vital task and only few people can manage it. Here we will discuss about how you can find a right mate.

Physical beauty is the first thing we notice in a person but if you are looking for a life partner do not blindly get hitched with a person just because he or she is extraordinarily beautiful. Physical beauty matters but it is the inner beauty of a person which determines the success of your relationship. Also, if you are in relationship with someone who is more attractive then chances are brighter that the relationship will not last longer. There must be balance in terms of attractiveness so the other one does not feel any kind of complex while being with you.

You should closely observe the interactions of your would be partner with other persons, with his/her friends, family members and colleagues etc. only then you can get a clear picture of his/her behavior and mentality. It is the best way to know his/her nature.

Love at first sight is ok but marriage at first sight is ridiculous. You need to understand the person with whom you are planning to spend the rest of the life. The thing is don’t be in a relationship just because you need to be. Have patience; spend some time together get to know each other and only then if you feel like living with the person, move your relationship to next level. Rushed relationship can not last longer.

The most important thing before getting in to relationship is you should consider the 80/20 rule. That means the person should be 80 percent what you wanted in your life partner and should be willing to fill the 20 percent gap by trying to be what you wanted.