Why do we leave the ones we love?
You promise to stay together till the last breath but you left me alone when I am still breathing.
Are words so easy to be spoken that one does not even want to keep it and do not feel embarrassed in not keeping it. Why don’t we have laws for all those who back out from what they say and don’t mean it later? Why things become so difficult between the ones who were considered to be the most compatible. Once Shahrukh Khan said “You are together till you want to be together and if any relationship fails that’s not because you no more compatible, that’s because you are no more dedicated to it.”
What is love? – Different people with very different meanings. But what can be one common meaning among all the different answers – Love is Unconditional. Two people coming together mentally and physically, becoming two bodies and one soul (the very filmy way of interpreting it) are actually with two different minds, two different temperaments and with two different likings ( as opposites attract each other) and therefore how one can expect the other to behave and react in the same manner. That’s why we say Love is unconditional where you respect your partner the way he/ she is – Good or Bad or Whatever.
Accept the person the way he/she is because you have decided to spend life with each other forever and ever. But what If your partner starts taking an undue advantage of this statement, Changes behavior like a chameleon? Here we trust our instincts and take a call. Few will sit, talk and discuss and would give their best to make it happen and few other would just walk off leaving the partner behind. The ones who discuss are the ones who want to fight with the situation and believe in themselves, their decisions and the later ones are self centered who believe in no compromise life not at the cost of their happiness.
I like writing Fiction and this is one soul touching work of mine. I would appreciate to get your comments on the same.
Thank You
Namrata Dixit
Freelance Journalist & Writer
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Promises are made to be kept and love is an unending commitment.
But there are no guaranties except for the law of change. As people change, do they embrace change together and grow closer to each other or, do they grower more distant and detached?
I agree with Shahrukh Khan when he said that relationships fail when people are no longer dedicated to making relationships work. Love takes effort and, no amount of effort is ever too much for the ones you love.
Thank you for this article, Alok.
Hey Terence,
Thanks for your nice comment. But it is not actually my credit, this thanks should go to Namrata.
Thankyou Alok for being so kind and giving me platform to get views which is v encouraging.
Thankyou Terence for your views.
Cheers!
This is a superb work dear, i totally agree with ur article and specially with ” Accept the person the way he/she is because you have decided to spend life with each other forever and ever.” i would like to say here , “Love should have the determination like mirror which never loses its ability to relect even if it’s broken into thousand pieces.” and i also wish that each & every single person who s in love should imbibe the first category of ur article and not the second. realy loved it. All the Best .
I agree with Mr. SRK but in my opinion Luv is a joining of two hearts. It is mutual understanding with our partner nd Love is not a single feeling but an emotion built from two or more feelings.
Saying I Love you some one it quite easy but survive though out the life is important . Love make two hearts at one . Facing the problem and solve that is important .
when a person can see the pain behind ur laughter,words behind ur silence,n luv behind ur anger,then u can believe that person is ur true love
Dats wonderful,
guys, LOVE is something we cant describe.
it just happend n really we care of it wen we r going to lose it or we had lost it
so…………..
free ur LOVE bt never let it go.
well….gr8 wrk…i reallly like wat u hav written..as u knw im a gr8 fan of ur writings..u hav wrote one of d greatest poems i hav ever heard..keep it up…love is a wonderful feeling….nd ths meaningful article completely explains that…..
keet ip up..
way to go…
Really a great article. Namrata we are looking ahead to see some more good stuff from you. Cheers.
love is life for some persons nd love is nothing for some persons….. but i think love is a thing that we can’t discribe in a single word…..its a gift which is given by God in this world
love well its just only a feeling nothing more then that and strong and nice feelings we only know about marriage because we can fight for our wife but we did not fight for girlfriend and one who have done that is chuutiya ,
love is that which we get from our perents, sister brother,friends and nothing more then that
The smile the comes on to your face when the thought of him /her comes onto your mind is love.If u’ve really loved a person u can never hate them or leave them…there is nothing called break up when it comes to love…if you have ever loved a person(if its not just words that you have told …but you meant them while saying)you can never forget your love.Even if you decide that you cannot stay together u’ll always love them and can never accept anyone in their place.But it hurts immensely when the person whom you’ve loved so much..could just forget you in no time and is happy to carry on without you ……and it hurts even more to know that they are seeing someone else…but may be we should feel happy for them at least they could get on …while we are still stuck..
Been going back & forth if I shud write…so here I am..!
The reason being I have gone thru this experience and still suffering the consequences. I do not want to blame her for doing what she felt was right for her….but the way she did it and the way she changed…..broke me so much that I was about to commit suicide…I do not know if not by admitting to others will I show to the world that I am ok…and have got on with my life…or keep thinking of her every possible moment how could she ever do this…and will she ever realize what she had….! God bless her..:)
BTW…, I do not think it is love since if u r in love u will always endeavor whatever life dishes out to be together…..may be it is a strong case of infatuation. where people tend to think it is love……but love…will never do this to love….:)