How to communicate with your Ex-Girlfriend!

You may have ended a relationship but you might be in a situation where you have to keep in touch with your ex. It might be due to kids or just a common circle of friends. Bumping into your ex after a breakup can be very awkward but if handled in a mature way, it can be comfortable too.

When you are in public where you both have to be together for some time, try to be extra cautious of not bringing up subjects which might bring back old memories. The past may have been good or bad, if brought back to present it would just ruin the moment for both of you.

If you broke up, it would mean that something went wrong somewhere. Your ex may not have been able to adjust to one of your habits or may not have liked one of your traits. Behave in a mature and careful way and try to avoid the display of the behavior which was not acceptable to him or her. Being rigid about being yourself may just put both of you in a ridiculous situation with one of you taking offense again and doing something unreasonable.

Try to talk to your ex beforehand. If you both can mutually agree to stand each other for the time you are together, then the entire experience may actually turn out exciting for both of you. Talk it out in advance with each other. Let the other person know how you feel and what you expect from your ex.

When you are looking to move ahead and still talk with your ex, make sure that you are under control and can cope with your emotions.  If you are going to explode out of anger or if you are going to shut down out of depression, it might be too soon to really get any good communication going.