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My dear friends, if you are a returning visitor of our website I News India, then you must be aware that on 11th of April 2008 we published one article with the title of: Irfan Pathan stumped in Shivangi’s Love! We are happy to announce that today the Sultan of Swing of Indian Cricket has confirmed that he is going to marry the lady love of his life i.e. Shivangi Dev. The dates of the marriage is not yet final, but according to Irfan Pathan it can be very soon.

As we got huge comments on our last article, so we can also say that it is a decision which can break thousands of lady hearts in India. Shivangi Dev is originally belong to a Gujrati family and her dad is an Indian Diplomat in Australia. Irfan confirmed today that the parents of the couple are now ready for the marriage and they are ready for the marriage now.

At present time Shivangi is residing in Australia and working there as a CA and also she loves teaching dancing to children. Irfan met with the lady love of his life in 2003, in a match in Canberra. When Irfan was asked about the marriage venue then he said, it was not yet finalized but it will be probably Vadodara.

Irfan today also confirmed that it was he who proposed her three years back, and thus he confirms the news which we published on 11th April 2008 about them. It is true that initially both the families resisted to the idea of the marriage but with time all of them has accepted the relationship. I News India wishes them very best in their life ahead.

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A few day’s back one of our reader sent us the article on Why do we leave the ones we love, and then one of our author Shobhita Dutta came up with this article:

This is one question which I think has no definite answer-can we cheat a person we love? Well, may be yes, may be no! Read on to find out.

Actually it depends from person to person and the situation in which we are. I have seen many youngsters dumping their true loves for a hotter hunk or chick, only to be ditched by them and return back to their true love. Actually you can never really “cheat” on whom you love, though you may get distracted for a while.

When you are with a partner for a long time, you tend to get a bit bored or miss the spark. Though the spark may be gone, but not love. You may be tempted to cheat on him/her but you’ll always be laden with guilt if you do so. And sooner or later you will find out that what you did was wrong. The kind of support and strength you get from your love, you can never get from any other person.

And when you truly love a person, you can never like anybody else to that extent. You will always find the same qualities and same mannerisms in the new guy or girl. But sadly, not two humans are alike.

So you can never cheat a person whom you love because you’ll know when the perfect guy/girl comes around and at that time you’ll have absolutely no reason to cheat on him/her.

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Tags: Cheat, Dating, Hate, Love, Person, Relationship

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You promise to stay together till the last breath but you left me alone when I am still breathing.

Are words so easy to be spoken that one does not even want to keep it and do not feel embarrassed in not keeping it. Why don’t we have laws for all those who back out from what they say and don’t mean it later? Why things become so difficult between the ones who were considered to be the most compatible. Once Shahrukh Khan said “You are together till you want to be together and if any relationship fails that’s not because you no more compatible, that’s because you are no more dedicated to it.”

What is love? - Different people with very different meanings. But what can be one common meaning among all the different answers – Love is Unconditional. Two people coming together mentally and physically, becoming two bodies and one soul (the very filmy way of interpreting it) are actually with two different minds, two different temperaments and with two different likings ( as opposites attract each other)  and therefore how one can expect the other to behave and react in the same manner. That’s why we say Love is unconditional where you respect your partner the way he/ she is – Good or Bad or Whatever.

Accept the person the way he/she is because you have decided to spend life with each other forever and ever. But what If your partner starts taking an undue advantage of this statement, Changes behavior like a chameleon? Here we trust our instincts and take a call. Few will sit, talk and discuss and would give their best to make it happen and few other would just walk off leaving the partner behind. The ones who discuss are the ones who want to fight with the situation and believe in themselves, their decisions and the later ones are self centered who believe in no compromise life not at the cost of their happiness.

I like writing Fiction and this is one soul touching work of mine. I would appreciate to get your comments on the same.

Thank You
Namrata Dixit
Freelance Journalist & Writer

Tags: Break Up, Love, Love Relationship, Relationship

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Every body is trying to get the perfect life partner. I am the lucky one who got her quite easily. Many friends of mine always ask about her, but till date I never reveal her name in public.

It was the second Valentine day which we spent together, in fact last year too we spent the VD together but not in the manner in which we spent the day this time. Last year we spent the day in a public program and this time it was totally private occasion.

I met with my Valentine a few years back, we became good friends but I never thought about making her my life partner. It was she who later reveals her feelings about me and I accepted her as my soul mate. I was aware that she is the sweat and charming girl and the most important thing is that she loves me a lot.

For me her love is the most precious gift given by God to me. I understand that it is she who changed my life completely, that’s why she has more value compared to other friends of mine. There is nothing in my life which is a secret for her and the vice-versa is also true, means there is nothing in her life which is a secret for me.

This year on Valentine Day, we first went out for a movie and then we took the lunch in a restaurant. After this we did a bit of shopping and that’s all about the VD.

We never gave each other any gift, still we enjoyed the day in a superb manner. We actually love each other so much that we don’t require any sort of gift to express our feelings. Without saying a word from our mouth we can easily understand the feelings of the other one. I think this is what the definition of love is.

I know that I don’t have enough words to define her self and the feelings about her, but still in this small note I tried to bring out my heart. I will ask you people to pray about us and one day from the same platform I will announce the complete detail about her too. Thanks for all your support.

Tags: About My Valentine, God, Love, My Valentine, Valentine, Valentine Day

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If you seriously want to lose a bit of extra weight then please follow these 5 things which can help you to lose weight:

1> Take proper sleep daily:

Getting proper and timely sleep is too much crucial, if you are seriously trying to loose your extra weight. You can fix a time for going to bed. Try every night to go to the bed at the same time and at least take a sound sleep of seven hours. This will not only give you physical relief but mental as well. If you will remain in stress through out the 24 hours of the day then you won’t be able to lose weight.

2> Chew the food for sufficient time:

I know many people will consider it as a joke. They can ask me about the relationship between losing weight and chewing the food. The scientific reason behind this line is that if you don’t chew the food for the proper time then enzymes in saliva will not get the time to start the digestion process, which can affect your digestive system. Thus to lose weight try to chew the food at least 100 times before swallowing.

3> Drink enough water:

If you are doing the exercise daily to lose extra calories then only doing the exercise will not help you to lose those extra calorie. Drinking enough water will help you to lose calories. One of the benefits of drinking water is that it will break the fats and protein of your body and will also act as a stimulant to guide your brain that you are not hungry. Water also suppresses the appetite and help fluid retention too.

4> Laughter can help you to lose a bit of calorie:

Yes it is true. Laughter can help you to help the functioning of your brain along with it will give you energy. I have always seen that if I am too much stressed then I prefer to watch one comedy movie and that always boost the energy behind me. Laughter can ease the blood pressure too. So next time if you meet some one give him a nice smile it will help you to enjoy yourself and to lose a bit of extra weight too.

5> Love can help you to lose weight:

The fifth but the most important factor which can help you to lose extra weight is Love. The feeling of love is the most important medicine dose which can lose the extra calorie inside you. It is in fact my personal feeling too that you need the motivation to lose the extra weight. That motivation can be achieved from your love.

In this fast moving world we need to manage everything within the short time, so we also need to manage our body fitness with our daily routine. A life full of tension is not going to help us in any way to lose weight so be relaxed and take the weight loss process easily.

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Which one is better - Love marriage or arranged? The issue is debatable all over the globe especially in eastern countries where arrange marriage is a tradition. As you read this question which option strikes in your mind first and why?

Education and media played a vital role in changing the perception of the Indian mind. Love marriage is supposed to provide freedom and more independence as compared to arranged marriages where the girl/boy is chosen by the parents. The usual question of love marriage voters against arranged one is that how can anyone marry the person whom they don’t know?

Amid popular love lore like Soni Mahiwal, India always had a long tradition of arranged marriages. With the advent of the British and the subsequent introduction of British education system more Indians got educated. Education and exposure to the media, started to make people to think and realize they need not be bound by tradition and they can choose their own marital partners without having to rely on parents, matchmakers, relatives or having to consult astrologers. This gave rise to love marriages. Currently in our country we have arranged as well as love marriages taking place.

If we start comparing love and arranged marriages we will see that both has certain pros and cons. If we talk about the love marriages first, it provides time for a mutual understanding between the partners which is needed for any successful relation. Knowing somebody before marriage allows partners to have better respect and understanding for each other’s needs and desires. This way they are better adjusted in the marriage when they finally take their wedding vows. In arrange marriages, there is a pressure to conform to parental expectations like producing a male heir, taking part in family rituals and traditions, putting up with sisters-in-laws, contributing to family expenses etc. Lovers have to try hard if their parents don’t agree with the relation. That is why it is said that Love is not an easy way out!

As the partners are happy with their spouse and its their own decision to marry him/her, love marriages should be successful but not all love marriages have happy endings. Sometimes discord arises even in love marriages. After spending a happy time of marriage, the same couple can be seen regretting on their decisions. They found hard to save the marriage and at last have to break up. If they them self chosen their partner and had a perfect tuning then why this unhappy end of the relation after marriage?

Perhaps to avoid this kind of ending, now-a-days youngsters prefer arranged marriages. It is thought that arranged marriages happen only in the east but this was not always so arranged marriages were happening even in Victorian Europe. The best part in an arranged marriage is that parents and the family is happy and they them self arrange the marriage. There is no tears and no battle for their permission. Arrange marriage offer more protection and security to the women. There is not much pressure on the women to look like models. Parents employ maturity and wise judgment when choosing suitable spouses for their children.

Caste system gave birth to arrange marriages, as the upper caste families didn’t want their children to marry outside their community and caste. In some case, by love marriage people lost all things like parents, society and religion. But after World War II and industrial revolution people’s perception started changing and they became familiar with the concept of love marriages. Slowly but steadily, love marriages are acceptable in Indian society also.

To decide which one is ideal is an unending debate. Love or arranged both is based on empathy, responsibility, commitment, love and concern. A marriage needs a lot of dedication and effort to sustain the relation.

So there is nothing like an ideal marriage it’s all about the way you perceive your marriage. The target is the happiness and stability of the relation in the marriage whether it is love or arranged.

Tags: Arranged Marriage, India, Love, Marriage, Society

If you want to get back your lost love or want to stop your break up or a divorce, here comes the magic steps which can immensely help you even if you think your situation is hopeless. You have to just do and say the RIGHT things at the right time.

1) Avoid strange things while in Pain and Fear: Situation of pain and fear while losing the love can make you doing some strange things which should be avoided to get back your ex love. When anyone is in pain, he/she feels very insecure and starts doing some strange things that we never believed we are capable of. For instance in such a week moment, we apologize profusely for mistakes that we don’t believe we committed. We try to convince them hard that it wasn’t our fault. These things only increase troubles in getting back our love. The unrealistic promises giving the pseudo feeling that we have tried everything we could, should be avoided.

2) Take responsibility: If you have a break up and want your love back, put the other things and reasons aside and take the responsibility of the break. Although you both are involved in the break up but you are also responsible for that somewhere and to some extent.

3) Put your ego aside: Ego is the biggest enemy of any relation. It is like a slow poison which ruins the relation. Put your ego aside and be first to ask him/ her to come back in your life. True love never fails. Your efforts will

4) Impatience is your enemy, avoid it:  Impatience compels you to take action out of fear and we know that causes more mistakes and bigger mistakes. Have patience although hard but control as far as possible. Impatience is just that little voice inside your head that tells you, you can’t be happy until you know your love is glad to be back. But this feeling can lead to disasters. Be patient and try to get back your love with the above magic steps.

Love is a feeling you can’t express in words. It is a fragrance you can’t catch but you can feel and hold the magic by avoiding that every thing which can harm your love. It is a commitment you have to follow. Avoid misunderstandings and try your level best to get back your love and make it last.

Also read the article on 5 Steps to survive Break ups?

Tags: Break Ups, Future, Life, Love, Relationship, Survival

Loss of a close relationship can make anyone to go in pain and depression. Sometimes a break up leading to a break down becomes very hard to cope with. Futures become scary and dark but STOP!  Life continues and we have to face it with courage. It’s only you who can help yourself to come out of the state of depression and control the situation.

Yes, the task is really hard but there are some steps that will help you in controlling the situation:

1) Interact with people- First thing you have to take care is to not spend your time alone in this situation. It is needed to be surrounded by people, either your family or friends. Call them, talk to them or you can also join a group for new hobbies to distract yourself from that painful happening.  Go for movies, group sports or your favorite music and dance and keep your mind relaxed and free from stress.

2) Avoid blame game- Don’t ever play a blame game. Take the responsibility as blaming each other will not help or mend the relationship. You was also an active part of that relationship and you are also responsible for both, its success and failure. However you are not the only one to blame.

3) Give yourself time to heal- It is tough to forget the lost love immediately but its okay to grieve for it.  Give yourself some time. Time is the best medicine to heal every pain of life. You might got angry and vent out your anger, let it go as your friends understands your situation. Just give some time to heal up.

4) Don’t stay depressed and move on– Now you are giving time to heal yourself and interacting with people. You need not to stay in the environment of sadness and grief. Just come out of it and move on. Think positive and forget the past. It will make no sense to just keep thinking and shedding tears for which you have lost and which will not come back again. You can go for a date just to make your mood light. If you’re not very comfortable with dating as yet go for a double date. Just move on the positive track of life!

5) Don’t force a new relationship- If you don’t found comfortable with any new girl/boy, just leave it. This kind of relationship will not mend your heart nor will it replace your other relationship. Try to spend some time with those with whom you found comfortable and you like their company. Do not force yourself to just stick with any buddy to forget the past.

These ways, though needs a lot of effort from your side but definitely will help you to come out of the mourning phase of your life and will make you feel good again.

Tags: Break Ups, Future, Life, Love, Relationship, Survival

An array of new exciting web addresses for the web will be used soon giving a new look to the internet. The common domain names - .com and .edu will be the old stuff as the new flavor of a variety of web addresses like .love, .sky, .sports etc is waiting for you.

The Internet Corporation for Assigned Names and Numbers (Icann) approved measures that will allow top-level domain names to be written in scripts such as Arabic or Cyrillic.

After that any company, organization or country will soon be able to apply for a new Web address extension, called a top-level domain. Icann adopted the new rules after a meeting in Paris.

Top-level domain names (TLD) , refer to Internet name suffixes like .com, .net and .org, among others. Currently, there are more than 200 TLDs, which also include the two-character country codes used by Web sites, such as Britain’s .uk.

“This is a historic resolution,” said Peter Dengate Thrush, chairman of Icann’s board. “It’s going to make a big difference to how the Internet looks and works.”

On Thursday, Internet regulators voted to relax rules on domain names like .com or .edu, which could pave the way for companies or individuals to create new flavored addresses for the Web.

Icann officials said some technical issues for the new system must still be worked out, but it could be reviewing the first applications for new TLDs as early as next spring. Icann officials estimated that prices would start in the low six figures, so the organization can recoup its expenses for developing the new service.

Under the new system, individuals, companies or groups could apply to have any string of letters established as a domain name. It could be a vanity name, for example — .smith — or a category name like .sports or .perfume. A company could also change its domain to reflect its brand, so Apple.com could become Apple.mac, for instance.

It could also sow confusion in the minds of Web users, create a host of new ways to exploit the Web addressing system and start a wave of legal skirmishes over applications to register trademarks — .coke, for example.

The Icann board said it would seek public comment on the guidelines before its next major meeting in November.

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Chatting and dating, the two most recent obsessions among the youth have so well gelled with each other that the present youngsters have totally been swallowed up by their mobile phones and the computers.

Messengers, social networking sites, dating sites, all have been ruling the worlds of the present generation.

It’s not that I am anti technology or anti dating, but what is the most important for me is the purity of soul and heart.

’Dating’, the gen-next name for a relationship has modified the meanings of love to the masses. People getting committed and then single and then committed is a very general notion but somewhere it is killing the serenity and beauty of the true and heartfelt feelings in a relationship

Where in today’s time, an objection to the mingling of the opposite sex people with each other would be considered narrow mindedness, the ethics of a relationship say your partner is your soul, your inner strength and the passion to live. If we go by this, then why we do see committed or married people flirting around on networking, dating sites or on secret chat rooms.

A guy usually having tons of female friends succeeds to propose and get into a relationship easily. But that one girl who is a spec in the whole sand dune of girls around that guy is unaware of his flirtatious attitude. I do not blame it all on the male sex, it is quite common with the females as well and neither do I quote that it is every person who is of this nature. A true and a genuine lover would have all the love, affection n time for his/her partner, prioritize him/her over any one and would never hide any kind of friends or things from him. Loyalty is the word for it.

I’d like to end it by saying that technology is a boon and should be used for our benefits and not to fulfill our desires that destroy the belief in emotions, and relationships.

I ask you people if I have been forced to write on this topic and authenticity of the relationships today, isn’t this a common scenario….???

Tags: Chatting, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Young Generation