How to Show Your Love to Your Boy?
Being a guy I can understand what boys expect from their girls when it comes about expressing your love. Hence this blog post of mine on how to show your love to your boy is for all girls and female readers of my blog.
In our daily life, we sometimes forget that there are so many small things which matters a lot. It is our busy schedule which almost forces us to control our emotion, and stops us to display how much we love our life partner. It actually stands for both females, as well as males.
It is my personal feeling that girls found it really difficult to let their partner know how much they love them. But there are some really small things which can easily tell the same to their partner.
6 Ways to Show Your Love to Your Partner?
6 Ways to Show Your Love to Your Partner?
Here are some of the ways through which a girl can display her affection towards their life partner, well when I say this it doesn’t mean that boys cannot do those things. Obviously they can also do the same and tell their partner how much they love and care them.
Text Messages
Text Messages
We guys are so simple, that we can be happy or at cloud nine when we receive an SMS from our love. Simply saying “I Love You” or any small and sweet text message can do miracle.
Especially for boys the importances of such messages are too high. Although they would not take much time to delete that from their handset, but it does not really mean that they don’t care or love those messages.
They do care of those messages, but they simply don’t want others to read the same, and hence prefer to delete it from their handset.
On the other hand if a girl receives the same, she will try to preserve it for as many days as possible, it is because they do love seeing the same again and again.
So despite living in the age of what’s app, facebook, and twitter, the craze of text messages are still alive. And believe me getting a sweet text message from you will fill your boyfriend with a pleasant surprise and you will definitely receive the response very soon.
Give Little Surprises
Give Little Surprises
I don’t think that there is any harm in a girlfriend, wife or spouse of a boy waiting outside his office for an outing, which was kept as a surprise for him.
I don’t think that there will be any guy who would not be happy after getting such a lovely surprises.
Everybody loves surprises, even the boys too.
Wife’s can cook his favorite dish, as my wife does so many times, even sometimes I just became surprised how she can understand what I was thinking to eat that day. Obviously guys will surely love such surprises.
It is not true that these tips can only be followed when your relationship is going through some crisis, after all why to wait for that worse moment?
Those who have gone through some relationships in their life, are must be aware of the fact that how difficult it is to maintain our life when things go a bit bad in relationships. To avoid those moments we should always try in advance.
Always remember one thing, boys might not share their feelings with you, but don’t think so that they won’t remember what sacrifices are you giving up in your life for him.
They will always remember all the little-little surprises which you will give them, and they will love you even more after those incidences.
Small Gifts
Small Gifts
I guess gifts are something which nobody dislikes.
Do you won’t be happy if someone gifts you something?
Obviously I won’t, no matter how angry I can be from someone, one small gift can do wonder and I will forget everything from the past.
Similarly in a relationship, small time to time gifts create wonders. A wallet, a tie, a set of some handkerchiefs, or anything which your lover loves, can be gifted, and believe me he will easily understood how much you do love him.
If you don’t want to give some gifts you can leave small love notes in his wallet, or at places where he can easily see them can create wonder in your love life.
Let Others Know
Let Others Know
One of the things which can give immense pleasure to your boyfriend is that, when you will let others know about your feeling towards him. Not only feelings but let others know how proud you feel after getting him in your life.
This is something which can easily explain your love towards your boy. Your boy will not require anything else from you after getting this.
This is something which can even boost the self confidence of your lover. No matter if you already has a kid of 2-3 years old, even then you can let other know how much your lover loves you and cares for your kid, it will definitely bring the proud inside him. It will boost his self confidence.
Many women out here think that while appreciating your lover will make them proud. But it is not true. Always remaining a critic will also not work in your relationship.
Try to maintain your attitude; try to criticize him for his faults, but not in front of others, especially never in front of either your or his in-laws.
But always appreciate your partner in front of others.
Let’s Lose Some Fights
Let’s Lose Some Fights
I am not sure if there are any couples out here who don’t have a single fight in their life.
We all do fight on some issues. Sometimes things even became worse too. Anyways that is your personal call to tackle those fights.
The point which I want to say over here is no matter on what issue you two had a fight, let him also win a few fights. I know it is really difficult for you to accept defeats, but do believe me losing a fight between you two is never like facing a defeat, in fact it will be another victory for you, winning the heart of your lover.
You always know that relationships are developed on a strong understanding, faith and trust. There is no harm in saying sorry for a few times to your boy, despite knowing the fact that you don’t have any fault.
Get Ready for Him
Get Ready for Him
Although it really doesn’t matters for your love, but believe me sometimes it gives good feeling to your lover too when you looks stunning. It always brings a good feeling in your relationship when you dress up for him.
Keep the spice alive inside you and display it to your lover. I am sure he will surely love it.
You can also sometimes call a few friends of his and arrange a get together with them. Believe me no boy will ever feel bad about this idea of having get together with their friends.
So these were some of the tips based on my own experience through which you can anytime attract your own boyfriend, spouse, lover, or whatever you call them.
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All points are good but loose some fights.. hehehehe.. difficult for me 😛 Wife is always right 😀
Yes Roohi mam, you are absolutely right that wife’s are always right. Being an husband I can claim that, but then will also pray that my wife should not read this comment 🙂
And this is the reason why I said lose some fights, not all. Obviously if wife’s allow their husband to win 1 out of 10 or 20 fights, you can easily understand the happiness which husbands (Bechara) will have.
So that was the point. Thanks for your comment. 🙂
Nice post Alok, very well laid out and precise too. I am with full 100% support on all these points 🙂
Thanks a lot Vinay 🙂 I am glad that at least I have a supporter now on these points 🙂